By: April Chavez
We took family pictures this weekend and as our photographer pulled my husband and son aside to take dad and son pictures, I felt a lump in my throat and my eyes began to tear up. In that moment I realized that family pictures could have looked a lot different if I had not survived sepsis. It was yet another reminder that our family of three was almost a family of two. Family pictures were almost dad and son pictures. Sepsis almost took my life.
Sepsis is the body’s extreme reaction to infection and claims more than 275,000 lives in the United States each year, leaving many others with life-changing disabilities.
Somehow, I am one of the lucky ones. I survived and the only life-changing effect has been the change in my vision. Not my actual vision, but my vision of what is important in life. Surviving sepsis opened my eyes to all of the small things in life that I had previously taken for granted.
Taking a simple walk around the park by our house with my son reminds me that at one point I was unable to walk without the assistance of a walker.
Being able to talk with my husband about my day reminds me that at one point I couldn’t breathe on my own.
Being able to scoop up my son in my arms when he asks to be held reminds me that so many others who have faced sepsis no longer have arms to scoop up their children.
Hearing my son call me “mama” reminds me that I survived maternal sepsis, the third leading cause of pregnancy-related deaths in the United States and globally.
Studies have shown that instances of maternal sepsis in the United States are increasing. I am committed to sharing my story to raise awareness about maternal sepsis and empower other mothers with the knowledge to know the signs of sepsis and advocate for their own health.
According to the Centers for Disease Control and prevention, A patient with sepsis might have one or more of the following signs or symptoms:
- High heart rate
- Confusion or disorientation
- Extreme pain or discomfort
- Fever, shivering, or feeling very cold
- Shortness of breath
- Clammy or sweaty skin